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WHY WORRY KILLS

Worry is like weed in your garden. You don’t invite it, neither do you like it. The fact that you don’t like it does not make it stop coming into your garden. Pesticides do help, but the help won’t last longer. Taking drugs, cigars or alcohol in order to forget your worries is like applying pesticides to destroy the weed in your garden. You have to keep on using it until the weed develops stronger resistant attitude to that particular pesticide. You will be Amen addict by then. So, it solves no problem at all.

Worry is not supposed to be treated or managed as they put it across these days. We were never created to cherish worry in us. It’s best dealt with the God’s way.

1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your anxiety (worries) on him because he cares for you.

Prayer is therapeutic. It’s relives and strengthens both, the body, soul and spirit. Your real strength must come from inside you for you to be able to stand against this worry (weed).
Ephesians 3:16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being,

Don’t stop casting (throwing), make it your habit. Just cast (throw) your worries to God as you pray. Even if it means throwing daily, keep on. It works. God is listening. One day, you will find yourself above those situations, if you don’t allow these worries (weeds) to grow in your garden.

God bless you all.

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CHAPTER ONE

Overcoming curve of ignorence Pt2

http://youtu.be/wHGzGTj_CrM

Parents should not wait for the child to be born for them to show love. If the child in the womb was to be asked about her parents’ love towards her, she would tell us that her parents are uncommunicative, reticent, detached, frosty, cold, callous, unkind, taciturn, unemotional, unfriendly, unfeeling, un-forthcoming, distant, disinterested, neglectful, uncaring and… the list is endless.

 

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CAN A FETUS HEAR?

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You don’t need a college education to influence your child straight from the mother’s womb.
It is written in a very simple way to make it easy to read and implement.
That’s it – that simple.

#parenting, #parents, #raisingachild, #singleparenting

 

IT’S IN MY FLESH

 I have published an eBook on the Smashwoods. It is a book about Christians affected or infected with HIV/AIDS virus. While they believe in healing, they still have to maintain their faith in God against the stigma, be it self or from others. Salvation is not in the body but in spirit.

You can access this book on https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/468458

Thank you for reading it.

 

 

ABOUT THIS BOOK

The most challenging questions in many church members’ minds, including the leadership is, “Can a person who is affected or infected by the HIV/AIDS virus remain a Christian?” This book will help you understand what it’s all about. It will give you the answers beyond the shadow of a doubt.

This book is a direct encouragement to those Christians who are living with HIV/AIDS. It is also a great source of encouragement to those who have not yet believed in Christ Jesus, as long as they are living with HIV/AIDS. It can be used by anyone who is struggling with any kind of a sickness as well to lift up his/her faith.

The information in this booklet has helped many people who were giving up, rise up again and stand. As long as you recite it always and keep your focus on the man Jesus Christ, you will get to that place of your spiritual strength. Once you are there, your immune system will rise up.

I have been working with people of the community for some years. I am a teacher of the Word of God. I have been teaching in theological colleges in the third world and first countries for over twenty years now. There is one thing I have observed and understood some things in the way Jesus Christ understood during his time on earth.

There were people with some diseases which no one would want to get close to, let alone touching them. Those are the people he would go closer to and touch as he ministered to them. I have listed a few Scriptures to stand as examples of how he went forth to those who were sick with all kinds of sicknesses.

ITS IN MY FLESH 4 copy

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BLESSED “GENERATION X”


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Change was and is the most feared thing in all generations.
Let us go for it for the benefit of our children’s social and spiritual life. #parenting, #inspire

 

PHONEME CONTRACTION

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So powerful thing to know effective children can learn even asleep. Their brains are more powerful than a recorder because they can record consciously and unconsciously as well. Don’t wait for them to grow up.

 

PARENTAL #LOVE

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Like a fish out of water so is a child without parental love.
#parenting #Faith #Christianity #love

 
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NEVER MEANT TO BE A BLANK SLATE

http://faithtap.com/1206/baby-wants-to-stay-with-mom/

JUST LOOK AT THIS HEART TOUCHING VIDEO OF THIS CHILD’S EMOTIONAL FEELINGS.

I Want To Stay With My Mommy! – Immediately after being born, the nurses place this baby to his mother’s cheek. How he responds when they try to take him away to wash him, is one of the most adorable moments you will see. It is love at first contact as the baby is clinging to his mother not wanting to be let go! Awww!

CHILDREN ARE NEVER AS A BLANK SLATE AS SOME OF THE PSYCHOLOGISTS SAID. THEY HAVE EVERYTHING NEEDED WITHIN THEM TO BE CALLED A HUMAN BEINGS FROM THE DAY OF CONCEPTION.

THE WORD OF GOD TEACHES US THAT
1- THEY HEAR FROM THEIR MOTHER’S WOMB.
From ·birth [L the womb], evil people ·turn away [go astray] from God; they wander off and tell lies ·as soon as they are born [from the belly; (another word for the womb); Psalm 58:3 (EXB)

2- THEY CAN EXPRESS THEIR FEELINGS FROM THEIR MOTHER’S WOMB.
Isaac prayed hard to God for his wife because she was barren. God answered his prayer and Rebekah became pregnant. But the children tumbled and kicked inside her so much that she said, “If this is the way it’s going to be, why go on living?” She went to God to find out what was going on. God told her, Two nations are in your womb, two peoples butting heads while still in your body. One people will overpower the other, and the older will serve the younger. Genesis 25:21-24 (MSG)
24 When her time to give birth came, sure enough, there were twins in her womb.

THIS IS JUST LIKE A DROP OF WATER IN THE OCEAN WHEN IT COMES TO CHILDREN EXPRESSING THEMSELVES FROM THE WOMB. THOUSANDS OF EVIDENCE CAN BE DOWNLOADED FROM THE WORD OF GOD.

GOD IS LOVE AND WE ARE CREATED IN HIS IMAGE AND LIKENESS.
Then God said, “Let us make human beings in our image and likeness. And let them ·rule [T have dominion] over the fish in the sea and the birds in the ·sky [heavens], over the ·tame animals [beasts; livestock], over all the earth, and over all the small crawling animals on the earth.” Genesis 1:26;

WE ALL KNOW THAT GOD HAS FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS AS WELL.
Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1 John 4:8;

THIS VIDEO CLIP SHOWS US THAT GOD’S LOVE AT WORK CAN BE TRACKED BACK FROM THE MOTHER’S LOVE. THIS CHILD IS SHOWING US THAT THERE WAS LOVE BONDING WHICH WAS CREATED FROM THE MOTHER’S WOMB.

LET US CONTINUE TO SHOW LOVE TO EVERYONE EVEN FROM THE MOTHER’S WOMB, ESPECIALLY TO THOSE WHO DO NOT KNOW CHRIST.
GOD BLESS YOU

 
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TALKING TO YOURSELF? Are you ……….?

TALKING TO YOURSELF? Are you ..........?

Talking to myself like something is not good. We all know that talking to oneself is considered to some extend as mental illness. Some close Christian friends were chatting on-line and the question was asked, “Is talking to yourself actually a sign of mental illness?” He had just read a portion of scripture which encouraged him to talk to his situation and build himself up by doing so. That was a very easy question to the friend. The answer to that was yes. He added another statement innocently as he was trying to help his friend understand the subject, “Talking to yourself can be a symptom of schizophrenia.” This was like a blow between the eyes. He felt like all he had read in the bible was like something which has no meaning.
Then I thought of the habit that I have of talking to myself as I build up my faith as well as reaching forth to my blessings, healing, goals and so forth. These words come quickly into my conscious world. I say some of these words daily and sometimes many times a day.
“I LIVE WITH PURPOSE.
I LIVE WITH OBJECTIVITY.
I AM A SUCCESS AND NOT A FAILURE.
I AM THE HEAD AND NOT THE TAIL.
I AM ABOVE ALWAYS AND NEVER BENEATH.
I AM ANOINTED BY THE SPIRIT OF GOD, WHO LIVES IN ME.
and on and on.”
According to my understanding, talking to yourself isn’t always a sign of mental illness because it is one of the most common habit amongst the humans. It is normal and even healthy. Your future is actually produced and perfected in your mouth. Ask those who made it in life as well as the stars in any sport how they made it. Most of them will tell you that they talked to themselves many times that it was possible and they were able to make it. Not so convinced, read this scripture, Proverbs 18:20-22; “A man’s belly shall be satisfied with the fruit of his mouth; and with the increase of his lips shall he be filled. Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof. Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.”
Ever wondered why most of the people who came out of Egypt died in the wilderness. It was because of their testimony after the report of the spies who had no faith. They spoke negative in line with the report given to them by the spies (Numbers 13 to 14). The only two people (Caleb and Joshua) who confessed the word of God, are the ones who made it and possessed what was theirs in the promised land. DEATH and LIFE are in the POWER of your tongue. These two guys (Caleb and Joshua) spoke IN THE SPIRIT OF FAITH according to the word of God. Have a look at this portion of scripture, “We having the SAME SPIRIT OF FAITH according as it is written, I BELIEVED, and therefore have I SPOKEN; we also BELIEVE, and therefore SPEAK (2 Cor 4:13).”
If you always in the in the same spirit of faith which was in Caleb and Joshua, miracles are certain. No matter how many people stand against you and your confession, as long as you are confessing God’s word, you will not be ashamed.
KEEP ON SPEAKING GOD’S WORD INTO YOUR LIFE FOR RESULTS. Someone said, “See what you speak. The Word will create whatever you have spoken. Keep on keeping on.

 

THIS KNOWLEDGE IS IMPORTANT

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If one wants to destroy your future in a smart way, he should just erase your identity from your memory.
 That is enough to deprive you of all your rights and benefits which includes your inheritance. That is what the devil did and is still doing to Christians. 
The devil causes Christians to doubt their identity in Christ. It is like a terrible sin to confess or speak out in public that they are like Christ. Yet it is very clear in the scriptures that they are like him in this world. Not in the world to come only, but starting with the life they live today. Some children do look like their parents and some don’t. Christians should know that they look exactly like God their father and as well as Jesus Christ their brother. They should be so proud of the fact that they are not only called the children of God, but that they also resemble their father. It is because of God’s love for them, his children to be that way. They are the loved children “begotten” of love and not through parental mistaken action. Check on this scripture:
1 John 4:17 (amp) in this [union and communion with him] love is brought to completion and attains perfection with us, that we may have confidence for the day of judgement [with assurance and boldness to face him], because as he is, so are we in this world.

Christians must have this awareness or consciousness in them, that they are his children. 
No need to take this as top secret, something to be known by a certain class of people only.
Christians must be proud of their identity. They should not deny their spiritual nature because of any kind of pressure. It’s not an ordinary thing, be called a child of God. It’s the best thing ever one can have in life which no one can take away from them. Those who have this grace bestowed on them are highly privileged because some died physically without obtaining it. It is the unmerited favour of God upon their lives. There is no college which can qualify people to become children of God. Neither is there any royalty rights, race, class or creed to help or place someone into the family of God (John 1:13).  
Check on this scripture
1 John 3:1 (MSG) What marvellous love the father has extended to us! Just look at it—we’re called God’s children! That’s who we really are. But that’s also why the world doesn’t recognize us or take us seriously, because it has no idea who he is or what he’s up to.

AS HE IS – SO I AM IN THIS WORLD.
I am not waiting to be like him in eternity.
He has made me his child from the day I received Christ.
He calls me his son from that very day.
His love made me his real son in this world.
And I am so motivated to have that understanding.
Hallelujah!!!

 

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