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Worry is like weed in your garden. You don’t invite it, neither do you like it. The fact that you don’t like it does not make it stop coming into your garden. Pesticides do help, but the help won’t last longer. Taking drugs, cigars or alcohol in order to forget your worries is like applying pesticides to destroy the weed in your garden. You have to keep on using it until the weed develops stronger resistant attitude to that particular pesticide. You will be Amen addict by then. So, it solves no problem at all.

Worry is not supposed to be treated or managed as they put it across these days. We were never created to cherish worry in us. It’s best dealt with the God’s way.

1 Peter 5:7 Cast all your anxiety (worries) on him because he cares for you.

Prayer is therapeutic. It’s relives and strengthens both, the body, soul and spirit. Your real strength must come from inside you for you to be able to stand against this worry (weed).
Ephesians 3:16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being,

Don’t stop casting (throwing), make it your habit. Just cast (throw) your worries to God as you pray. Even if it means throwing daily, keep on. It works. God is listening. One day, you will find yourself above those situations, if you don’t allow these worries (weeds) to grow in your garden.

God bless you all.





Eph. 6:16 “In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one;”

During this week, take a shield of faith as your best tool to pull down the strongholds of the devil. Parenting is in itself warfare against principalities, powers, rulers and the spirits of wickedness which wants to take our children from us. Do not waste time trying to find out why some things are happening. Don’t even bother to pray a “WHY LORD” prayer which others do.

You cannot stop the devil to do his work. 1 Peter 5:8-9
“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. Resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same kinds of suffering are being experienced by your brotherhood throughout the world.”

There are so many ways he tries, but we know that we are more than conquerors. Your work is to be sober, awake. This means that you must be a parent who is aware of what is happening in schools, internet and Medea as well as in your family.

It is a week to practice your authority in Christ. Having the SHIELD of faith is being sober. Being sober minded is being in a prayerful mood. It is being filled with the WORD OF GOD, which happens to be the shield. You are equipped in a way that the evil one will be defeated no matter how he tries. Just pay attention to this scripture, “If anyone attacks you, it will not be my doing. Whoever attacks you will be defeated by you,” Isaiah 54:15; (GW).

There is very clear warfare language in this scripture passage. There are also very clear results shown in this same scripture passage; “Whosoever attacks you will be defeated by you.”

Dear Father, I thank you from the authority you gave me over the powers of the enemy. I am on the winning team being led by the Spirit of Jesus Christ who lives in me. My children are covered and protected. I fear no evil because Christ conquered. I see no defeat because I am more than a conqueror. I have the victory. In the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

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Posted by on October 13, 2014 in #child, #FOLLOWING-JESUS, #God, #INSPIRATION, #parents, Parenting, PRAYER, WEEKLY INSPIRATION



Overcoming curve of ignorence Pt2

Parents should not wait for the child to be born for them to show love. If the child in the womb was to be asked about her parents’ love towards her, she would tell us that her parents are uncommunicative, reticent, detached, frosty, cold, callous, unkind, taciturn, unemotional, unfriendly, unfeeling, un-forthcoming, distant, disinterested, neglectful, uncaring and… the list is endless.
You can also get it from Apple and many leading booksellers.



You don’t need a college education to influence your child straight from the mother’s womb.
It is written in a very simple way to make it easy to read and implement.
That’s it – that simple.

#parenting, #parents, #raisingachild, #singleparenting


Overcoming the Curve of Ignorance

Overcoming the Curve of ignorance

Book Cover

I have publish a new eBook called Overcoming the Curve of Ignorance.

Short Description:
Overcoming the Curve of Ignorance is a short teaching on the situation and emotions that confront many new and expectant parents. Overcoming the Curve of Ignorance is a great teaching on things where many find that they are in the world of the unknown.

This book is a must-read for all young couples and parents-to-be. Through the wisdom of an experienced parenting teacher, who was himself an expectant father and found himself in the “curve of ignorance.” He turned to the Bible and through its timeless truths, he managed to learn methods of teaching the unborn. He will be beside the reader to go through the lessons he learnt. This book has been designed to be easy to follow with simple lessons to give guidance and encouragement at this precious time.
In covering the most crucial lessons and tips on how to teach an unborn child, this book will open your eyes to God’s will for your family and especially your baby. Some years ago many people, including the professionals, thought that children were born like a clean, blank sheet of paper as yet unwritten. But now we know differently. Knowledge of the activities of the fetus in the womb is much deeper and has been studied extensively. We now know that the fetus can learn and be able to retain cognitively what they learned in the womb.

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Posted by on August 30, 2014 in #caring, #child, #INSPIRATION, Books, eBooks, Parenting, WEEKLY INSPIRATION





Change was and is the most feared thing in all generations.
Let us go for it for the benefit of our children’s social and spiritual life. #parenting, #inspire




So powerful thing to know effective children can learn even asleep. Their brains are more powerful than a recorder because they can record consciously and unconsciously as well. Don’t wait for them to grow up.



If one wants to destroy your future in a smart way, he should just erase your identity from your memory.
 That is enough to deprive you of all your rights and benefits which includes your inheritance. That is what the devil did and is still doing to Christians. 
The devil causes Christians to doubt their identity in Christ. It is like a terrible sin to confess or speak out in public that they are like Christ. Yet it is very clear in the scriptures that they are like him in this world. Not in the world to come only, but starting with the life they live today. Some children do look like their parents and some don’t. Christians should know that they look exactly like God their father and as well as Jesus Christ their brother. They should be so proud of the fact that they are not only called the children of God, but that they also resemble their father. It is because of God’s love for them, his children to be that way. They are the loved children “begotten” of love and not through parental mistaken action. Check on this scripture:
1 John 4:17 (amp) in this [union and communion with him] love is brought to completion and attains perfection with us, that we may have confidence for the day of judgement [with assurance and boldness to face him], because as he is, so are we in this world.

Christians must have this awareness or consciousness in them, that they are his children. 
No need to take this as top secret, something to be known by a certain class of people only.
Christians must be proud of their identity. They should not deny their spiritual nature because of any kind of pressure. It’s not an ordinary thing, be called a child of God. It’s the best thing ever one can have in life which no one can take away from them. Those who have this grace bestowed on them are highly privileged because some died physically without obtaining it. It is the unmerited favour of God upon their lives. There is no college which can qualify people to become children of God. Neither is there any royalty rights, race, class or creed to help or place someone into the family of God (John 1:13).  
Check on this scripture
1 John 3:1 (MSG) What marvellous love the father has extended to us! Just look at it—we’re called God’s children! That’s who we really are. But that’s also why the world doesn’t recognize us or take us seriously, because it has no idea who he is or what he’s up to.

I am not waiting to be like him in eternity.
He has made me his child from the day I received Christ.
He calls me his son from that very day.
His love made me his real son in this world.
And I am so motivated to have that understanding.


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By Elasto Marume


WORDS ARE POWERFUL AND CAN FORMULATE whatever you see in your vision. Words can pull you out of muddy and slimy-pit to a luxurious & pleasant place. God gave you words to set yourself on the right place of your choice.


Words are like power tools. The Magnificent, beautiful, outstanding buildings of this world were built by power tools in the hands of people of great wisdom. If they are in the wrong hands, they can be disastrous and dangerous. With WORDS of wisdom and understanding, build your magnificent, beautiful and outstanding world. Isn’t this great, to know how much potential we have to beautify our world?

In the beginning (Gen 1) God spoke to create the world. He spoke to bring out light in order to bring a change from that very dark atmosphere. His words  divided day from night so that we can measure our human life span, know the difference between days, months, years and seasons. Isn’t this wonderful?

Jesus Christ said, “Life is spiritual. Your physical existence doesn’t CONTRIBUTE to your life. The words that I have spoken to you are spiritual. THEY ARE LIFE.” (John 6:63)

If Media can influence and change life-styles, cultures, traditions, mindset and environment through MERE WORDS. HOW MUCH MORE CAN THE GODLY AND ANOINTED ONES achieve in this world. Through words, the economy grows  and falls. Isn’t this important to know?

It takes words to totally destroy your child’s future. Low self esteem and low self image are a result of spoken words. Words can build-up a confident and powerful child to influence great people in this age and even the coming generations in the future.

DO NOT MIS-USE your words. Do not speak negative words to your family, work, business or anything in your world. Death & life are in the power of your tongue (Pro 18:20-21)

“He spoke and it came to be; He commanded, and it was established (Psalms 33:9).” Whatever God spoke happened. In this world we are like Jesus.” (1 John 4:17 NIV). “Because, as he is, so are we in this world.” (1 John 4:17 AKJV). “Because our life in this world is the same as Christ’s.” (1 John 4:17 GNT). “Because, as he is, even so are we in this world.” (1 John 4:17 ASV). WE ARE LIKE JESUS IN THIS WORLD; We have him in US right now. Our words are powerful.

Therefore, SPEAK IT – HAVE IT


Something Every Parent Needs to Read.

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Posted by on March 6, 2014 in #caring, #child, #counselling, #FOLLOWING-JESUS, #parents, #pastoring, #psychoanalysis, Parenting, pastoral caring, Uncategorized

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